Weddings

Small & Intimate weddings and receptions for up to 42 people starting from £2,750inc vat…

Located in an almost forgotten valley between Luddesdown and Holly Hill in the heart of the Kent countryside, having been lovingly restored by the current owners, this beautiful, unique and intimate medieval church is known as The Lost Village of Dode and is available for hire for your special day.

We can now offer you a magical, relaxed, romantic, unique wedding venue for up to 40 of your closest family and friends, with on-site Self-catering accommodation for the bridal party in our two superb award-winning cottages.

Providing a quirky and unique canvas, The Lost Village of Dode is perfect for couples who want to begin their tale of love, romance and desire, either inside or outside. You can choose from a small, intimate indoor wedding or partnership and Renewal of Vows. Or for an outdoor spiritual blessing or pagan handfasting ceremony, you can hold your event within the ancient Stone Circle followed by a lavish wedding reception banquet with dancing to finish the night. 

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Civil Wedding Ceremonies, Civil Partnerships, Renewal of Vows

Perhaps in your heart of hearts, you have always imagined getting married in a church?

Maybe it’s the stunning architecture, the sense of tradition, or how special churches or chapels feel that draws you to such buildings? But, a traditional church ceremony is just too religious for you or your loved one, whilst a civil ceremony just doesn’t feel spiritual enough? Here at the Lost Village of Dode the former Norman Church enables you an amazing opportunity to ‘have and to hold’ the best of both worlds, in that the ancient and sacred building allows you to have all of the tradition and the beauty, all under one magnificent roof, but without the religious restraints or connotations.

This ancient place of worship, now a licensed wedding venue, enables you to get married in a unique, lovingly preserved, medieval former church but, and importantly, it enables you to book a non-religious wedding/Civil Ceremony or Partnership, followed by your reception and wedding drinks in a church.

The interior is atmospherically illuminated with flickering candles. Flanking the central walkway to the nave there are carved oak wooden benches, covered with warming rugs, on which your guests sit during the ceremony that then become the seating during your ‘Medieval’ Wedding banquet after which you can end the evening with dancing and much merriment.

With all our knowledge and experience, along with our carefully chosen, suppliers the Friends of Dode, we have created several Wedding Packages to ensure you are getting the very best value for money, the best quality service, whilst working with a passionate team that will help create your ideal ‘I do’.

Dode prides itself on being an inclusive space where people from all walks of life can come together and enjoy each other's company. With its ambient atmosphere and friendly staff, Dode is a welcome space for the LGBTQ community to gather and feel at home. And with its dog-friendly policy, furry friends are also welcome to join in on the fun. 

Lost Village of Dode Ceremonies:
  • Ceremony Coordinator plus on the day support
  • A closed and private Facebook account, where we share inspiration from all around the world and you can ask questions confidently in the knowledge that they are not going public
  • The Instagram-perfect church and grounds including our sacred stone circle, will be exclusively yours on the day for after ceremony drinks and photographs
  • If you are holding a Civil Ceremony at the Lost Village of Dode we will reserve your wedding date with Kent County Council
  • Free parking for up to 8-10 guests/supplier cars
  • An opportunity to book our superb on-site Cottages, perfect for the bridal party (subject to availability)
  • A planning meeting ahead of your ceremony. We believe this is a really important aspect of our wedding package ensuring your day goes to plan
  • In-house sound system to play music of your choice
Lost Village of Dode Wedding Package:
  • Ceremony Coordinator plus on the day support from a member of Dodes team
  • Your choice of 3 different catering options including a two course Wedding Banquet – a feast that will become legendary amongst your nearest and dearest.  The banquet options includes a food tasting ahead of your day.
  • The Instagram-perfect church and grounds, will be exclusively yours on the day
  • In-house sound system to play music of your choice
  • Free parking for up to 8-10 guests/supplier cars
  • A closed and private Facebook account, where we share inspiration from all around the world and you can ask questions confidently in the knowledge that they are not going public
  • A run through/planning meeting of your special day either within the Norman Church or amongst The Ancient Stones. We believe this is a really important aspect of our wedding package, ensuring your day goes to plan
  • Our in-house photographer to capture those all-important moments of your special day from arrival, the ceremony and the couple/family shots after.
  • If you are holding a Civil Ceremony at the Lost Village of Dode we will reserve your wedding date with Kent County Council
  • Seasonal flowers of your choice in the two urns adjacent to the ceremony area
  • An opportunity to book our superb on-site Cottages, perfect for the bridal party (subject to availably).
  • Staff to turn your venue around from a ceremony into your evening Wedding Banquet

Blessings, renewal of vows, Humanist ceremony and thanksgivings

If you would like to hold a Blessing or you are looking to celebrate a milestone in your married life, at The Lost Village of Dode, you can book a Blessing Ceremony, Renewal of Vows or a Thanksgivings. With a Celebrant conducting your wedding ceremony, at the Lost Village of Dode you can choose to hold your Blessing outside, amongst the unique Stone Circle, in the knowledge that, if there is inclement weather, you can still use the church.

Booking a Blessing is an increasingly popular option, as it enables you to work with your Celebrant to shape your ceremony in any way you like, whether you want to stay traditional or include your own elements. As such you have much more choice in your order of proceedings. You might choose to include a particular style of music and outfits – perhaps something medieval inspired or even a hint of Steam Punk? With an intimate wedding Blessing there are lots of opportunities to make your wedding day truly unique. This historic, memorable and romantic venue enables you to add your own personal twist to your special day.

Enchanting Wedding Banquet receptions

After your ceremony guests usually spend time in the stunning grounds, enabling you to have your group photos and enjoy a glass of bubbles and perhaps a selection of canapés.

During this time it enables us to set up for your Medieval Style Wedding Banquet Reception with all the trimmings. Your Wedding Banquet might include a hog roast, or a roast lamb with a multitude of seasonal side dishes, or how about a Grazing Package or High Tea.

Example wedding breakfast menu* *Subject to change based on seasonally available and locally sourced produced
Drinks at the Lost Village of Dode

For your Drinks reception you are welcome to provide your own drinks (no corkage charge) or we recommend that you work direct with one of our Friends of Dode suppliers, such as Double bubble Van who can provide either a converted bike or camper van to serve. 

Our Friends of Dode
And to Bed at the Lost Village of Dode

By choosing to hold your wedding or event at the Lost Village of Dode, you can add a final chapter to your epic story. Why not book one of our superb on-site cottages to stay.

The Accommodation
Extra special touches unique to The Lost Village of Dode

For some extra magic, if you love birds and in particular owls, at The Lost Village of Dode you can also include our feathered friends, to silently carry your precious ring box, in your Order Of The Day.

Special Touches
Availability

If you want to completely abolish the formality and pressures of a traditional wedding, please be aware we only hold wedding celebrations and events during the summer months, April to end of October, and over Christmas on Thursdays, Fridays and Saturday. Please contact us to discuss your initial requirements.

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