Elopements at Dode

For couples seeking stillness, beauty, and a love story told quietly.

Far from the expectations of tradition and the demands of a large guest list, elopement weddings at The Lost Village of Dode are designed for couples who want something more personal, more sacred—and entirely their own.

Hidden deep in the Kent countryside, Dode is a place where time stands still. Here, you’ll find a peaceful, historic setting where nature, ancient stones, and candlelight surround you in gentle silence. Whether it’s just the two of you, or you’re joined by a handful of loved ones, your wedding will be entirely private, uniquely meaningful, and utterly unforgettable.

If you dream of a ceremony that feels intentional, spiritual, and truly heartfelt, eloping at Dode may be exactly what you’ve been searching for.

"We got married here on 21st December 2024 and it could not have been more perfect. We had an elopement wedding with six guests and our 3 dogs and stayed in one of the on site cottages .
The venue is just stunning and with just one wedding a day it is all yours and the surroundings are beautiful, with lots of wide open space."

Civil Wedding Ceremonies, Civil Partnerships, Renewal of Vows.

At The Lost Village of Dode, your ceremony is more than a formality—it’s a sacred, meaningful moment shaped entirely around you.

Whether you're choosing a civil wedding ceremony, a civil partnership, a renewal of vows, or something more symbolic and spiritual, Dode offers a deeply personal space to celebrate your love. Unlike traditional venues, Dode is a place where time stands still—a former Norman church filled with candlelight, history, and peace.

We welcome:

Civil Ceremonies & Partnerships – Conduct your legal ceremony in a licensed venue that feels both ancient and atmospheric, without religious restraints.
Renewal of Vows – Honour your journey together with a heartfelt re-commitment in a sacred and intimate setting.
Handfastings & Spiritual Ceremonies – Embrace tradition, symbolism, or ritual in your own unique way—indoors by candlelight or beneath the open sky in our ancient stone circle.

Our lovingly restored church offers the best of both worlds: the timeless beauty and reverence of a traditional setting, paired with the freedom and inclusivity of a non-religious ceremony. Your vows can take place within flickering candlelight, surrounded by carved oak benches and warm, comforting textures—perfect for a serene and soulful experience.

After your ceremony, you’re welcome to enjoy a quiet toast, a peaceful walk through the grounds or even a mini celebration in the church itself or accompanying retreat cottage. Whether you’re eloping just the two of you or inviting a small gathering of loved ones, Dode offers a rare and precious opportunity to marry in a setting that is as unique and heartfelt as your story.

Enchanting Intimate receptions

After your ceremony, continue your celebration in a way that reflects your shared values—whether that’s peaceful solitude or a joyful gathering of your nearest and dearest.

Picnic or Grazing Table in the Meadow – Enjoy a quiet moment together surrounded by nature, with a simple feast under the open sky.
Private Toast with Loved Ones – Raise a glass in the candlelit church or outside among the stones. Perfect for those inviting a small group of guests.
Photography & Moments of Stillness – Wander through the stunning grounds, capturing memories among the wildflowers, and sacred landscape.
Nearby Dining Options – For couples who wish to extend their celebration, we can recommend intimate local restaurants or even the option to enjoy a private dining experiences within our on-site retreat cottage for up to 8 people.

Our elopement experience is calm, beautiful, and free of stress. You can focus entirely on each other, knowing every detail is quietly taken care of.

Elopements at The Lost Village of Dode are held on Mondays to Thursdays, from late March through to mid December, offering a peaceful, unhurried alternative to the traditional weekend wedding.

This midweek availability allows you to experience the magic of Dode in its most serene and undisturbed state—whether you’re marrying beneath spring blossoms, in the golden glow of summer, the rich colours of autumn, or with a hint of festive sparkle in December.

If you feel called to make The Lost Village of Dode part of your love story, we invite you to share your vision with us. Tell us a little about what you’re dreaming of—we’ll listen with care and guide you gently through the next steps. All enquiries are handled with warmth, confidentiality and a deep respect for your story.